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Let us look at why it is a BAD idea to ask loved ones to help you make decisions about your future and relationships....

 
*  People are humans and humans can get emotionally involved.  When they do they find it hard to think clearly. They may see that you are hurt or worried and not be able to help.

*  Your loved ones are biased.  You may be talking about moving, they may tell you it is best for you to stay where you are because it suits them.
 
* They may tell you what THEY would have done if they had been in your situation, forgetting to mention that they have never been in your situation OR, when they were, they made a mess of things!  If someone has been in lots of casual relationships they cannot understand, let alone advise, on serious ones. If they have been married and divorced many times they cannot know how to pick the right partner or make a marriage work.
 
* They may let us down. It is not uncommon to tell someone you love something of vital importance to you.  They promise to help you sort it out or get a happier life, then they find out they are unable to or change their mind. They might promise to do something and months later you are still waiting, or they do it all wrong.
 
* They gossip!  They may be interested in hearing all of the juicy details and secr and then tell others what you told them.
 
* They cannot give any form of medical help if needed.  A therapist will know about medication and other treatments that can help you.
 
* They do not know about mental health, psychology and the A-Zs of relationships, who to forge them with, how to forge them, how to make them work, when to end them and how to end them.  Many of them may be unhappily single or unhappily in a bad relationship and are therefore not in a position to judge your emotional welfare or give advice on how to improve it.

Samantha specialises in:

DEPRESSION
ANXIETY
LACK OF CONFIDENCE
PHOBIAS
RELATIONSHIPS
LIFE CHANGING DECISIONS
SEXUAL OR EMOTIONAL ABUSE
CHILDHOOD ABUSE
OCD
PANIC ATTACKS
INSOMNIA
PERSONALITY DISORDER
ADDICTIONS

 When you are at a crossroads in your life, unhappy or needing to make a decision you need EXPERT help.  By making the right decisions you move into a far happier phase of your life.

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 are as experienced
 as Samantha are either totally retired OR they
 pass on all of their work
 to less experienced and qualified staff. Samantha
 is still available to help
you. She gives you the choice of consulting one
 of her helpers or her. Whichever you choose
 you know you are in
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